You Can't Beat A Woman | Ivy Nallammah Parenting a Gender Non-Conforming Child 1 day ago   18:25

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Ivy Josiah, a proud feminist, who defend against domestic violence of women and children in Malaysia. For 15 years, Ivy Josiah has been the Executive Director of Women’s Aid Organisation (WAO) – A
non-profit organisation in Malaysia that fights for women’s rights, specifically against violence
against women. She has developed, promoted and implemented WAO’s shelter services, and led the
advocacy work on the issue of violence against women and women’s rights in Malaysia. Her effort to
fight for the rights of women was not only in Malaysia, even on international platforms such as Asia
Pacific Forum on Women, Law and Development (APWLD) and International Women’s Rights Action
Watch Asia Pacific (IWRAW AP). This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at

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dev0n james
you need to get boys and men out of the home.
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Parenting a Gender Non-Conforming Child You Can't Beat A Woman | Ivy Nallammah 1 day ago   15:21

I believe there are preconceived notions of how raising a child will go in terms of gender. We prepare ourselves in completely different ways when we learn we are having a boy or a girl and this is reinforced and policed from the second a child is born and beyond. But what happens when your child does not adhere to the confines of gender boundaries defined by society? How does that change how we view our children, ourselves, and the world around us? Gender has become a hot topic in almost every area of society--creating Princess Free Zone (a brand, website, blog) allowed me to be a voice in the positive change that has taken place over the last eight years. More importantly, though, I have a very personal stake in the dialogue because my daughter, by age three, rejected all things considered "girly." It was through her that I found my calling. My talk would address my personal journey as a parent and the need for openness when raising our children in terms of how to nurture their exploration of identity versus hindering it.
Michele Yulo is the founder and president of Princess Free Zone, Inc. and creator of SUIT HER, a potential line of suits for girls. It was Michele’s daughter, Gabi, who would provide the crucial spark of inspiration. Gabi was never into princess or pink; instead, she loved super heroes and bright, bold colors! Finding nothing for her in girls’ departments, Michele realized that girls like Gabi were being completely ignored by big companies that seemed to only see girls through a very narrow lens that limits their self-expression as well as the world around them. Michele decided do something about it and in 2009 started her journey with PFZ and helping to break down the gender stereotypes that are harmful to all children. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at

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